All right …
I’ve been accused of this.
What happened:
Someone I work with in the org,  asked me to be “polite”  and “get off the high horse” in front of a whole lot of other co workers, associates, and clients.
What I did:
Said, “I don’t need to learn that from you”
Interpretation
Bossy
My Take
I don’t ever advise people on talking, [...]